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Anyone know about Feminist Pornography? Does anyone know where I can find some free feminist porn? Preferably lesbian based, but I'm currently doing research about the difference between generic hardcore and lesbian porn that directed by females and feminist porn.
Any help will be greatly appreciated, as well as personal experience comments!
Thanks! | | I don't know if feminist porn exists but there is certainly a lot of agressive lesbian porn out there made for lesbians (fisting up against the wall and all that). So your report shouldn't cast male oriented porn as abusive and female oriented porn as all nicey nice if that's what you were thinking! | What do feminists think of this quote from Camille Paglia? "My thinking tends to be libertarian. That is, I oppose intrusions of the state into the private realm - as in abortion, sodomy, prostitution, pornography, drug use, or suicide, all of which I would strongly defend as matters of free choice in a representative democracy."
I personally find it quite refreshing that a lesbian feminist like Camille Paglia thinks in this manner. It is so much better than the likes of Andrea Dworkin with her comments that marriage is legalized rape and that society exists best under a socialist/communist structure. I think Dworkin was just an angry feminist who couldn't get a date, straight or lesbian.
What's your opinion? | I agree with Camille Paglia, as I believe strongly that our country should not seek to criminalize consensual "crimes". I don't think that this has much to do with feminism, really, but I've always been somewhat Libertarian.
I've never been too keen on Andrea Dworkin. I read two of her books, and she strikes me as someone who has a rather unhealthy view of male-female relationships. Her books certainly were full of intriguing ideas, but I wish she wouldn't try to speak for *all* women - I'm happily married, and my relationship with my husband is one of the best things in my life. I'm also not too keen on the push for communist-style daycare. I'm not sure where she stands on that issue, but I'll bet that she finds it preferable to letting parents socialize their guyren into having the parents' values. | What is my sexual orientation? Ever since I was a guy, I had crushes on girls. I remember I had a crush on Misty from Pokemon when I was 9 (feel free to laugh). But I did have some moments with the male sex organ. It wasn't like I'd get excited about the thought of seeing one, it was just I had no problem with it, it was like the whole 'sword fight' in Step Brothers thing and I thought there was humor around the sight of one because I remember laughing when people would see other people naked. Also, my crushes on girls were usually sparked by jealousy, like there was one girl everybody said that I was going to end up with and I shrugged it off, but in 4th grade i saw her giving help to a new boy in class and I thought of him claiming her and a spark of jealousy overcame me. I also had a fetish (bubble gum, yes, very odd) and when I'd see a girl with it I'd suddenly be drawn in by her. I remember watching Austin Powers at 11 and the whole almost scene it moments with him and I wanted to see it, not for sexual reasons but just for hell's sake. And sex wasn't my biggest concern, I had a crush on that same girl all my guyhood and wanted to be with her. I followed Church teaching on the importance of sex. But as I developed my sexual desires and preferences I saw a fully grown man's penis once and I was grossed out by it. And as I hit puberty late (15) and didn't learn how to have fun til then and my fetish was my source of fun, I spent less time idolizing naked women.
Anyways, a 'friend' of mine (unpopular and jerk, hung out because of compassion and guilt) convinced me that because I didn't talk about girls and wanted to get into film and I didn't like macho stuff that I was gay. That was added on to bullies saying I was gay, pretending to be gay around me to make me feel uncomfortable and telling me to look up gay porn and putting a rainbow sticker on my backpack once. I said I'm gay once and I suddenly freaked out, and I remember the penis moments in my guyhood and how I hung around guys more (easier and more relaxed, no need to impress anybody) and my fetish replacing naked girls, I must be psychologically prone to homosexuality and I began to feel sexual attraction in men, not girls. Forgive me, I was so worried I forgot I had a crush on another girl and freaked out when I saw my roommate naked. But that went away after I ran into that girl I always liked. But it came back 5 months later as a result of more paranoia. But I don't like gay porn and I FINALLY discovered how awesome lesbian pornography is. I feel like I like men's looks more than girls, but I don't like the idea of gay sex or a gay relationship. When I relax I can notice sexual attraction in women, but sometimes my OCD tricks me into trying to be gay. I wake up sometimes feeling hetero, but I feel so odd compulsion to just be gay. It's a genuine condition, called HOCD.
I feel great when girls flirt with me and I feel like I step into some energy aura when I stand near a hot girl. Can somebody help me out and tell me what this means? Am I gullible and worrying too much?
I talked to my therapist and she says I sound like I'm heterosexual, since my orientation is incapable of changing, according to the Surgeon General. I love being near girls sexually and am SLOWLY starting to redisover my sexual attraction in them. Verdict? And don't give me any of the whole: oh, search within yourself, then you will know. I've done a lotta searching since June, so I think I've gone everywhere. I also think that it further leads to confusion. Just tell me if you think I'm gay or straight. | You just keep reposting this again and again, it seems..
To give you MY verdict on all of this:
You sound like a straight dude who is suffering from gay-related OCD.
And boy do you have OCD... Really, I understand how it can potentially wreak havoc on somebody's mind, seeing as I've sometimes shown tendencies of it myself, and was actually diagnosed with it once during my guyhood. But this compulsive checking is getting out of hand. I seriously think you should go see your shrink. Maybe she'll be able to help you.. Or maybe not. But ONE thing is for certain: what a bunch of random internet strangers tell you is NOT going to matter!
You know yourself WAY better than WE could possibly know you. We are not some cryptic oracle of truth which can just spew out, on command, a 100 % definite: "you are straight!" or "you are gay!". Plus, no matter what WE say, it is NOT going to be good enough, is it? You are still going to keep doubting. Such is the nature of OCD. The reassurance only lasts for a little while, and then it is back to square one.
So yeah... Seek more treatment, and try to focus on other things instead. Also: try telling yourself that it doesn't really freaking MATTER what your sexual orientation is, either way. I know it is hard, though... And I'm sorry I cannot be of more help. I sincerely wish I could. | Do you all think this means I'm gay? Ever since I was a guy, I had crushes on girls. I remember I had a crush on Misty from Pokemon when I was 9 (feel free to laugh). But I did have some moments with the male sex organ. It wasn't like I'd get excited about the thought of seeing one, it was just I had no problem with it, it was like the whole 'sword fight' in Step Brothers thing and I thought there was humor around the sight of one because I remember laughing when people would see other people naked. Also, my crushes on girls were usually sparked by jealousy, like there was one girl everybody said that I was going to end up with and I shrugged it off, but in 4th grade i saw her giving help to a new boy in class and I thought of him claiming her and a spark of jealousy overcame me. I also had a fetish (bubble gum, yes, very odd) and when I'd see a girl with it I'd suddenly be drawn in by her. I remember watching Austin Powers at 11 and the whole almost scene it moments with him and I wanted to see it, not for sexual reasons but just for hell's sake. And sex wasn't my biggest concern, I had a crush on that same girl all my guyhood and wanted to be with her. I followed Church teaching on the importance of sex. But as I developed my sexual desires and preferences I saw a fully grown man's penis once and I was grossed out by it. And as I hit puberty late (15) and didn't learn how to have fun til then and my fetish was my source of fun, I spent less time idolizing naked women.
Anyways, a 'friend' of mine (unpopular and jerk, hung out because of compassion and guilt) convinced me that because I didn't talk about girls and wanted to get into film I was gay. That was added on to bullies saying I was gay, pretending to be gay around me to make me feel uncomfortable and telling me to look up gay porn and putting a rainbow sticker on my backpack once. I said I'm gay once and I suddenly freaked out, and I remember the penis moments in my guyhood and how I hung around guys more (easier and more relaxed, no need to impress anybody) and my fetish replacing naked girls, I must be psychologically prone to homosexuality and I began to feel sexual attraction in men, not girls. Forgive me, I was so worried I forgot I had a crush on another girl and freaked out when I saw my roommate naked. But that went away after I ran into that girl I always liked. But it came back 5 months later as a result of more paranoia. But I don't like gay porn and I FINALLY discovered how awesome lesbian pornography is. I feel like I like men's looks more than girls, but I don't like the idea of gay sex or a gay relationship. I'll feel like I'm getting used to it (result of OCD? adjusting my mind to it?) but five seconds into it I 'wake up' and realize no! I feel great when girls flirt with me and I feel like I step into some energy aura when I stand near a hot girl. Can somebody help me out and tell me what this means? Am I gullible and worrying too much, or should I consult a therapist? | Yes you worry too much and yes you should talk to a professional therapist to clarify your feeling and honestly evaluate what it is that excites you.
What ever it winds up being, relax and be who you are not who others want you to be, that includes friends, parents and pastors. | Can somebody help me out here? Ever since I was a guy, I had crushes on girls. I remember I had a crush on Misty from Pokemon when I was 9 (feel free to laugh). But I did have some moments with the male sex organ. It wasn't like I'd get excited about the thought of seeing one, it was just I had no problem with it, it was like the whole 'sword fight' in Step Brothers thing and I thought there was humor around the sight of one because I remember laughing when people would see other people naked. Also, my crushes on girls were usually sparked by jealousy, like there was one girl everybody said that I was going to end up with and I shrugged it off, but in 4th grade i saw her giving help to a new boy in class and I thought of him claiming her and a spark of jealousy overcame me. I also had a fetish (bubble gum, yes, very odd) and when I'd see a girl with it I'd suddenly be drawn in by her. I remember watching Austin Powers at 11 and the whole almost scene it moments with him and I wanted to see it, not for sexual reasons but just for hell's sake. And sex wasn't my biggest concern, I had a crush on that same girl all my guyhood and wanted to be with her. I followed Church teaching on the importance of sex. But as I developed my sexual desires and preferences I saw a fully grown man's penis once and I was grossed out by it. And as I hit puberty late (15) and didn't learn how to have fun til then and my fetish was my source of fun, I spent less time idolizing naked women.
Anyways, a 'friend' of mine (unpopular and jerk, hung out because of compassion and guilt) convinced me that because I didn't talk about girls and wanted to get into film I was gay. I said I'm gay once and I suddenly freaked out, and I remember the penis moments in my guyhood and how I hung around guys more (easier and more relaxed, no need to impress anybody) and my fetish replacing naked girls, I must be psychologically prone to homosexuality and I began to feel sexual attraction in men, not girls. Forgive me, I was so worried I forgot I had a crush on another girl and freaked out when I saw my roommate naked. But that went away after I ran into that girl I always liked. But it came back 5 months later as a result of more paranoia. But I don't like gay porn and I FINALLY discovered how awesome lesbian pornography is. I feel like I like men's looks more than girls, but I don't like the idea of gay sex or a gay relationship. I'll feel like I'm getting used to it (result of OCD? adjusting my mind to it?) but five seconds into it I 'wake up' and realize no! I feel great when girls flirt with me and I feel like I step into some energy aura when I stand near a hot girl. Can somebody help me out and tell me what this means? Am I gullible and worrying too much, or should I consult a therapist? | | If you're not sexually attracted to men or want to have sex with men you're not gay. I don't think you're gay. | Do I sound like I'm genuinely gay or do I have some issues to settle in therapy? Ever since I was a guy, I had crushes on girls. I remember I had a crush on Misty from Pokemon when I was 9 (feel free to laugh). But I did have some moments with the male sex organ. It wasn't like I'd get excited about the thought of seeing one, it was just I had no problem with it, it was like the whole 'sword fight' in Step Brothers thing and I thought there was humor around the sight of one because I remember laughing when people would see other people naked. Also, my crushes on girls were usually sparked by jealousy, like there was one girl everybody said that I was going to end up with and I shrugged it off, but in 4th grade i saw her giving help to a new boy in class and I thought of him claiming her and a spark of jealousy overcame me. I also had a fetish (bubble gum, yes, very odd) and when I'd see a girl with it I'd suddenly be drawn in by her. I remember watching Austin Powers at 11 and the whole almost scene it moments with him and I wanted to see it, not for sexual reasons but just for hell's sake. And sex wasn't my biggest concern, I had a crush on that same girl all my guyhood and wanted to be with her. I followed Church teaching on the importance of sex. But as I developed my sexual desires and preferences I saw a fully grown man's penis once and I was grossed out by it. And as I hit puberty late (15) and didn't learn how to have fun til then and my fetish was my source of fun, I spent less time idolizing naked women.
Anyways, a 'friend' of mine (unpopular and jerk, hung out because of compassion and guilt) convinced me that because I didn't talk about girls and wanted to get into film I was gay. That was added on to bullies saying I was gay, pretending to be gay around me to make me feel uncomfortable and telling me to look up gay porn and putting a rainbow sticker on my backpack once. I said I'm gay once and I suddenly freaked out, and I remember the penis moments in my guyhood and how I hung around guys more (easier and more relaxed, no need to impress anybody) and my fetish replacing naked girls, I must be psychologically prone to homosexuality and I began to feel sexual attraction in men, not girls. Forgive me, I was so worried I forgot I had a crush on another girl and freaked out when I saw my roommate naked. But that went away after I ran into that girl I always liked. But it came back 5 months later as a result of more paranoia. But I don't like gay porn and I FINALLY discovered how awesome lesbian pornography is. I feel like I like men's looks more than girls, but I don't like the idea of gay sex or a gay relationship. When I relax I can notice sexual attraction in women, but sometimes my OCD tricks me into trying to be gay. I wake up sometimes feeling hetero, but I feel so odd compulsion to just be gay. I feel great when girls flirt with me and I feel like I step into some energy aura when I stand near a hot girl. Can somebody help me out and tell me what this means? Am I gullible and worrying too much?
I talked to my therapist and she says I sound like I'm heterosexual, since my orientation is incapable of changing. I love being near girls sexually and am SLOWLY starting to redisover my sexual attraction in them. Verdict? | Dude, I think you're a hetero with a pinch of "what if I'm gay" syndrome.
Have you ever considered that maybe you like both sexes? I guess bisexual is the way to go until you find that person you really love, gay or straight.
ps: Yea, I crushed on Misty, too. Dang, I even crushed on Gadget from Chip n dale rescue Rangers...and don't get me started on Disney princesses! | Somebody give me their take on this...? Ever since I was a guy, I had crushes on girls. I remember I had a crush on Misty from Pokemon when I was 9 (feel free to laugh). But I did have some moments with the male sex organ. It wasn't like I'd get excited about the thought of seeing one, it was just I had no problem with it, it was like the whole 'sword fight' in Step Brothers thing and I thought there was humor around the sight of one because I remember laughing when people would see other people naked. Also, my crushes on girls were usually sparked by jealousy, like there was one girl everybody said that I was going to end up with and I shrugged it off, but in 4th grade i saw her giving help to a new boy in class and I thought of him claiming her and a spark of jealousy overcame me. I also had a fetish (bubble gum, yes, very odd) and when I'd see a girl with it I'd suddenly be drawn in by her. I remember watching Austin Powers at 11 and the whole almost scene it moments with him and I wanted to see it, not for sexual reasons but just for hell's sake. And sex wasn't my biggest concern, I had a crush on that same girl all my guyhood and wanted to be with her. I followed Church teaching on the importance of sex. But as I developed my sexual desires and preferences I saw a fully grown man's penis once and I was grossed out by it. And as I hit puberty late (15) and didn't learn how to have fun til then and my fetish was my source of fun, I spent less time idolizing naked women.
Anyways, a 'friend' of mine (unpopular and jerk, hung out because of compassion and guilt) convinced me that because I didn't talk about girls and wanted to get into film and I didn't like macho stuff that I was gay. That was added on to bullies saying I was gay, pretending to be gay around me to make me feel uncomfortable and telling me to look up gay porn and putting a rainbow sticker on my backpack once. I said I'm gay once and I suddenly freaked out, and I remember the penis moments in my guyhood and how I hung around guys more (easier and more relaxed, no need to impress anybody) and my fetish replacing naked girls, I must be psychologically prone to homosexuality and I began to feel sexual attraction in men, not girls. Forgive me, I was so worried I forgot I had a crush on another girl and freaked out when I saw my roommate naked. But that went away after I ran into that girl I always liked. But it came back 5 months later as a result of more paranoia. But I don't like gay porn and I FINALLY discovered how awesome lesbian pornography is. I feel like I like men's looks more than girls, but I don't like the idea of gay sex or a gay relationship. When I relax I can notice sexual attraction in women, but sometimes my OCD tricks me into trying to be gay. I wake up sometimes feeling hetero, but I feel so odd compulsion to just be gay. It's a genuine condition, called HOCD.
I feel great when girls flirt with me and I feel like I step into some energy aura when I stand near a hot girl. Can somebody help me out and tell me what this means? Am I gullible and worrying too much?
I talked to my therapist and she says I sound like I'm heterosexual, since my orientation is incapable of changing, according to the Surgeon General. I love being near girls sexually and am SLOWLY starting to redisover my sexual attraction in them. Verdict? And don't give me any of the whole: oh, search within yourself, then you will know. I've done a lotta searching since June, so I think I've gone everywhere. I also think that it further leads to confusion. Just tell me if you think I'm gay or straight. | I thin your Straight and putting too much thought into this.
you sound straight to me.Everyone has those odd moments in life when they feel,"Odd."no worries. | Do straight men get off on Gay Pornography? I know some do as I have read comments on other websites. I too can watch gay porn quite comfortably now. I see them as a person not as two men as such. And it's not their bodies i get off on either. It's just a nice sexual connection between two people. I see the vunerablity one of them has which is what men would love to have addressed. Well its in there for you so is the emotional connection men desire. And theres no men issues or egos to contend with. It's not all bang bang far from it. I have since seen a full movie where everything took place outside. They guys were around age 20 and had ordinary but good looking bodies and were very sensual. But to watch it and get aroused you have to take the barrier down from ur mind. So I did an experiment pretending that the world was run by women and they accepted gay porn for men and even enouraged it. That felt empowering. Then i tried to think of two men in an imaginary film at the foot of my bed where one was intimately kissing the top of the others back. At first it did nothing for me so i wondered why. Then i decided to purposely take down that barrier (you sense this barrier kick in so u have to kick it down).
Woman have never had a barrier that's why so many straight women watch lesbian porn today because men have always promoted it in women in the media, commercially and porn sites like hetero which always has a lesbian theme somewhere, or even if u go to a solo nude girls like meta art (but these girls have unnatractive bodies so i don't get that site but that's for another debate) you will always see a few lesbian shots. It is everywhere. Women are sexualised and pushed in men and womens faces all the time. It is no wonder women live their lives through mens eyes as people say.
So what i did in the experiment was put my mind over that barrier and maintain that thought process positively and i tried it again. This time my penis had a blood flow and become very slightly aroused and my breathing became heavier. I thought wow i've just cracked it I could masturbate to this now. I asked myslf what i would feel like if i did and i just new it wasn't the mens bodies that i had to think about, it was just the very senusal and pleasant theme of arousal that was now inside me. Men were just a bi-product to get me to that place. Now i understand why women watch lesbian porn and can orgasm and still not check out or go with girls in real life. That is how it felt for me. I could never get with another guy and entertain anything romantic toward one. But i do now understand male arousal more. Blimey i feel so more free as a person. No wonder most men don't live as long as women. They still cant get past women touching their nipples or bottom as some women say about their men. I was always shocked by this cultural homophobia feeling that they just cant let go of.
For the expriment it is best to lay in bed at night and be relaxed without anything on ur mind. You can do it with ur mind but u have to consciously slip it back into that place we aren't all supposed go to. It's liberating. No wonder women have happier dispositions. They embrace everything. Now i am keeping that positive acceptance of gay porn in my mind everyday. I never thought in a million years i could do this. I just thought i was like any other guy who was put off by it. My life is more richer for it. | I think it's possible
I think sexual activity of any sort, flicks a switch in our brains and we can get aroused at things we would not consider in real life.. | Why do religious people have the urge to force their beleifs onto others? I know this is an obvious question,
"Homosexuals want to come into churchs and disrupt church services and throw blood all around and try and give people AIDS and spit in the faces of ministers"
- Rob Paterson, founder of the Christian coalition.
Gary Potter, President of Catholics for Christian politcal action had this to say
"When the Christian majority takes over this country, there will be no satanic churches, no more free distribution of pornography, no more talk of rights for homosexuals and woman. After the Christian majority take over this country, pluralism will be seen as immoral and evil and the state willl not permit anybody the right to practive evil."
Congressman Bob Dornan
"Dont use the word "gay' unless its an acronym for "Got aids yet?"
Richard Dawkins wrote this, From the book The God Delusion, which Im going to write out.
"When I interview for television the Reverend Michael Bray, a prominent American anti-abortionist activist, I asked him why evangelical Christians were so obsessed with private sexual inclinations such as homosexuality, which didn't interfere with anybody else's life.
His reply invoked something like self-defence. Innocent citizens are at risk of being collateral damage when God chooses to strike a down with a natural disaster because it houses sinners.
In 2005, the fine city of New Orleans was catastrophically flooded in the aftermath of Hurricane, Katrina.
The Reverend Pat Robertson, one of America's best known televangelist and former presidential candidate, blamed the hurricane on a lesbian comedian who happened to live in New Orleans."
I mean LOL
and Why? | In another answer, I stated that religion plays heartily into a whole range of psychiatric illnesses, and i think you've helped to illuminate one of my points. Narcissistic Personality Disorder is characterized by not seeing or understanding the humanity of others, or the range of human inclinations (everyone is like me, or they should be), and pointing to the seeming foibles of others in order to deflect even the possibility of attention to their own sins (hence these televangelists in trouble hiring prostitutes, priest molesting young boys, etc.). These people have either acted on, or simply had, thought of a homosexual nature, and they have scorned it as part of their animal psyche trying to interfere with their definitions of holiness and righteousness. With this inability to be flexible enough with the people around them, they see this sin as a slippery slope: the more it is accepted at large, the more the world turns out like they believe it shouldn't be, and therefore must go out and propagate their view of the world to cure a homosexuality that their sons could find acceptable, that society at large could find acceptable, and, the larger issue, that could ultimately corrupt their sense of holiness by reminding them that perhaps they find a penis appealing. this also goes back to animal kingdom fears about dominance in that submitting to another man, especially sexually, is a threat of their view of their dominance and influence in their little world.
It's very simple and tempting to point to the Roman Empire and say that the beginning of the end was when homosexuality, bisexuality and bulemia became accepted practices in a wealthy, spoiled society, but I think the more fundamental issue is why there wasn't a standard, accepted set of ethics to say, "Consenting adults is the rule -- don't victimize guyren or animals who cannot consent." Consent and privacy are the central issues -- not the acts themselves. but, yes, this is Narcissistic personality disorder to the extreme with a strong dose of ignorance. Remember that ignorance is knowing the facts but ignoring them. So much for Christian understanding and forgiveness, eh? And as for Hurricane Katrina -- or any other natural disaster -- haven't we adequately proven that meteorology is a science with its own properties? If God wanted to send a message, wouldn't he make a hurricane in Nebraska, where it's scientifically impossible? If these people are so concerned for their safety because of the acts of a few, hadn't they better start sacrificing lambs and goats to the great volcano god?
You make a fantastic case. Good luck to you. | Who else thinks the American Family Association (AFA) should be smashed with a crowbar? Wikipedia: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/American_Fa…
Their official website: www.afa.net/
Look at all the dumb buIIshit they rant about. They could possibly be one of the biggest hate groups. They're so focused on bashing anything that they don't see as "pure" and "christian". Look at how many companies they've boycotted against just because of the ads they make. They try to stop anything linked with Lesbians/Gays or pornography or violence. They need to grow up and learn that the world isn't going to change for a bunch of intolerant christian pusssies. They claim what they're doing is "free speech" but they put down anything that they don't agree with. They even bashed some indian guy for talking about HIS hindu god because he "wasn't connected to christianity" and they're trying to shut down Family Guy for airing an episode on sunday making a tiny JOKE about christians. So, what's your opinion on this hate group that's apparently "supposed to make america better for its families?" | They have boycotted everybody but Wal-Mart, what does that say about them? Just another bunch of fundie nutcases that should just be ignored. They will die out soon. don't tell them 7-11 is selling Playboy again.(lol).
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